Do We Still Need to Build a Prom for Everyone?
How can you not love a show where the cast wears t-shirts that say, “We’re All Lesbians”?
I know, I know. Perhaps I’m a teeny bit biased.
I couldn’t help but feel, as I watched the musical “The Prom” at the Straz Center in Tampa on Tuesday night, that this show wasn’t just for the niche audience of queer people who may or may not have missed their prom because they couldn’t take their same-sex partner as a date or dress in a way they felt represented them.
There is a more broad and more beautiful message to this story. This is a show for everyone.
What Is The Prom All About?
Perhaps you’re already familiar with the story of The Prom. I had caught the version that Netflix released in 2020, with a cast including Meryl Streep, Nicole Kidman, and Kerry Washington, and loved the touching story line and campy feel. The disconnect for me, though, was the perma-grin on the face of the title character, Emma, who was disowned by her parents, verbally abused by her classmates, in a relationship with a partner who was not ready to go public after a year and a half together, and villainized by the adults of her small-town Indiana community.
Let’s be honest. We LGBTQ+ can continue smiling through some hard shit… but not ALL the hard shit.
In walks the musical theater performance of The Prom and my soul was satiated. The show brought out all of the emotions in me, and it was palpable amongst the audience as well. I found myself alternating between laughs (fine… they were more like snorts) when the cast of Godspell was singing “The Acceptance Song” at a monster truck rally, full-blown tears during “Dance With You” between Emma and her girlfriend Alyssa, and goosebumps during so many small moments in between.
This cast has some serious talent. And they drop the word “fuck” during several well-timed occasions, which may be one of my love languages.
Why The Prom Matters Today
I’ve been a musical fan since my wee days as a youth-- a time before I even realized that the walls around me were a closet that I’d fight to break out of over the next several decades. There are so many shows I’ve loved, but this one is going to hold a special spot in my heart.
Perhaps it’s because it has roots in several true stories and brings to a broader audience just one of the many issues that the LGBTQ+ community faces. The lines from “Dance With You” say it best:
I don’t want to start a riot
I don’t want to blaze a trail
I don’t want to be a symbol or cautionary tale
I don’t want to be a scapegoat for people to oppose
What I want is simple as far as wanting goes
I just wanna dance with you
I wanted to elbow people in the audience and say – you’re building a prom for everyone! That’s exactly what you are doing! But I was proper and just danced in my seat. Glad you enjoyed the show!! Now we’ll have to see how much you cry to Ring of Keys if Fun Home returns to Tampa Bay.
Your comment put a huge smile on my face! (And it was hard NOT to dance in my seat throughout the show). I’ve heard of Fun Home but don’t know anything about the story. Looking forward to checking it out. Thank you for sharing!