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Compulsory Heterosexuality & How It’s Hurting Our Children

I have become acutely aware of one truth in parenting: despite my best efforts and most loving intentions, something I do or say to my children will hurt them. They can have the most perfect upbringing and will still benefit from unpacking things that happened to them during their youth. It’s just part of being …

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The Sticks & Stones Rhyme Lied… and a Tribute to Ducks

“Gross!”  He couldn’t have been more than 13 years old, walking away from the hotel pool with someone who appeared to be his older teenage sister.  “No it’s not,” she shot back, not taking even a second to look up from her phone. They were talking about us. I prayed that my partner Jen, whose …

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Come Out, Come Out, Wherever You Are… Or Don’t

National Coming Out Day takes place on October 11, 2021 and is observed in the United States, Ireland, Switzerland, the Netherlands, and the United Kingdom. I was shocked to learn that it’s been recognized since 1988, as I remember first hearing about it just two years ago.  Perhaps it’s only because that was the year …

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